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    Should I take the same money to go back to the same job?

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    • scottalanmillerS
      scottalanmiller @Joy
      last edited by

      @Joy said:

      @Dashrender said:

      And the old company won't offer more than you were making before? Yeah I can't see making that move back.

      Yes, they wont

      They you should literally laugh at them and slam down the phone telling them to never disrespect you so much again.

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      • JaredBuschJ
        JaredBusch @Joy
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        @Joy said:

        It's 3 hours or more of commute because Traffic is worse.

        3 hours one way? Or 3 hours commute time total?

        Is it not possible to find an apartment any closer?

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        • scottalanmillerS
          scottalanmiller
          last edited by

          Slamming the phone is figurative for those of us from the phone and cradle era. Do not slap your iPhone around.

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          • DashrenderD
            Dashrender @scottalanmiller
            last edited by

            @scottalanmiller said:

            Slamming the phone is figurative for those of us from the phone and cradle era. Do not slap your iPhone around.

            LOL - I can see it now.. slam iphone = sad face and lost extra money

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            • JaredBuschJ
              JaredBusch @scottalanmiller
              last edited by

              @scottalanmiller said:

              Slamming the phone is figurative for those of us from the phone and cradle era. Do not slap your iPhone around.

              Gods, I miss that pressure release at times too.

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              • scottalanmillerS
                scottalanmiller
                last edited by

                They need a "slam the phone" button that makes a slamming sound on the other end and automatically disconnects.

                It could be the "hang up with prejudice" button or something.

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                • StrongBadS
                  StrongBad
                  last edited by

                  Going back to the old job seems like a clearly bad idea. There is no incentive for you to consider it, it would seem.

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                  • JoyJ
                    Joy @JaredBusch
                    last edited by

                    @JaredBusch said:

                    @Joy said:

                    It's 3 hours or more of commute because Traffic is worse.

                    3 hours one way? Or 3 hours commute time total?

                    Is it not possible to find an apartment any closer?

                    6 hours commute of total

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                    • DashrenderD
                      Dashrender @Joy
                      last edited by

                      @Joy said:

                      @JaredBusch said:

                      @Joy said:

                      It's 3 hours or more of commute because Traffic is worse.

                      3 hours one way? Or 3 hours commute time total?

                      Is it not possible to find an apartment any closer?

                      6 hours commute of total

                      You do that every day?

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                      • gjacobseG
                        gjacobse
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                        Joy -

                        I think one what to work this out if you want ot just look at numbers is to factor every hour from when you close and lock your door heading to work and when you return to that door again at the endo f the day.

                        A three hour journey one way to the office is not a great way to start your day. Nor is it a good way to end it. Your 8 hour work day becomes a 14 hour day. Even if you are making more with the new company - you could be making less overall with just the commute.

                        Factor in your expenses and it just compounds that.

                        Now having said that What makes you happy? So often we make a choice about work solely based on money... But happiness trumps money.

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                        • JoyJ
                          Joy @Dashrender
                          last edited by

                          @Dashrender said:

                          @Joy said:

                          @JaredBusch said:

                          @Joy said:

                          It's 3 hours or more of commute because Traffic is worse.

                          3 hours one way? Or 3 hours commute time total?

                          Is it not possible to find an apartment any closer?

                          6 hours commute of total

                          You do that every day?

                          Sorry i was referring for the Old apartment that i been lived before in the province.
                          right now the commute should be 5 to 10 mins only but sometimes it will take 30 t0 45 mins due to traffic

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                          • JoyJ
                            Joy @gjacobse
                            last edited by

                            @gjacobse said:

                            Joy -

                            I think one what to work this out if you want ot just look at numbers is to factor every hour from when you close and lock your door heading to work and when you return to that door again at the endo f the day.

                            A three hour journey one way to the office is not a great way to start your day. Nor is it a good way to end it. Your 8 hour work day becomes a 14 hour day. Even if you are making more with the new company - you could be making less overall with just the commute.

                            Factor in your expenses and it just compounds that.

                            Now having said that What makes you happy? So often we make a choice about work solely based on money... But happiness trumps money.

                            Yes , I tried to do it first. and I'm always tired of my commute so i decided to look for bed space in the City.

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                            • JoyJ
                              Joy @Dashrender
                              last edited by

                              @Dashrender said:

                              @Joy said:

                              @JaredBusch said:

                              @Joy said:

                              It's 3 hours or more of commute because Traffic is worse.

                              3 hours one way? Or 3 hours commute time total?

                              Is it not possible to find an apartment any closer?

                              6 hours commute of total

                              You do that every day?

                              That was before i decided to look for bed space so that i don't need to go home everyday

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                              • JoyJ
                                Joy @scottalanmiller
                                last edited by

                                @scottalanmiller said:

                                They need a "slam the phone" button that makes a slamming sound on the other end and automatically disconnects.

                                It could be the "hang up with prejudice" button or something.

                                Guys, I can't really totally disconnect from them.. They are good people 🙂
                                I mean i started to grow up with them, they trust me to handle everything given that I'm Zero knowledge when i worked for them 😃

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                                • scottalanmillerS
                                  scottalanmiller @Joy
                                  last edited by

                                  @Joy said:

                                  Guys, I can't really totally disconnect from them.. They are good people 🙂
                                  I mean i started to grow up with them, they trust me to handle everything given that I'm Zero knowledge when i worked for them 😃

                                  But they've made it clear that they do not feel the same way towards you. They have made a point of telling you that you are worth less to them now than you were back then. They are completely insulting.

                                  They are trying to use you and you should walk away from that situation. This is your career, your life. Don't throw it away as a "favor" to people who don't respect or care about you.

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                                  • scottalanmillerS
                                    scottalanmiller @Joy
                                    last edited by

                                    @Joy said:

                                    Guys, I can't really totally disconnect from them.. They are good people 🙂

                                    Not in a career or job perspective to you. You are confusing which factors apply to job decisions.

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                                    • scottalanmillerS
                                      scottalanmiller
                                      last edited by

                                      Have beers with them, go to karaoke... don't work for them until they decide you are worth treating as a professional.

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                                      • JaredBuschJ
                                        JaredBusch @Joy
                                        last edited by

                                        @Joy said:

                                        Sorry i was referring for the Old apartment that i been lived before in the province.
                                        right now the commute should be 5 to 10 mins only but sometimes it will take 30 t0 45 mins due to traffic

                                        Ok, now this is more clear.

                                        You could commute from home and have lower living expenses, but that is 3 hours one way.
                                        You have opted for bed space knowing it is higher living expenses, but much closer to work with only 15 minutes of commute time.

                                        So this part of things is how much does the higher cost of living affect your goals for income?

                                        Determine that and then you will be able to begin to determine how much more they would be required to offer you in order for you to take a job again with your prior employer.

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                                        • DashrenderD
                                          Dashrender
                                          last edited by

                                          I agree with Jarad.
                                          You don't have to be paid as much as you are being paid at the city job to consider taking the province job. But using simple numbers.. let's say you make 100 more a week in the city job, but it costs you 30 in rent more for the city job. In that case you're actually only making 70 more than the old job. Plus there is value in the fact that you'll be at home every night, and not just on weekends.

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                                          • JoyJ
                                            Joy @JaredBusch
                                            last edited by

                                            @JaredBusch said:

                                            @Joy said:

                                            Sorry i was referring for the Old apartment that i been lived before in the province.
                                            right now the commute should be 5 to 10 mins only but sometimes it will take 30 t0 45 mins due to traffic

                                            Ok, now this is more clear.

                                            You could commute from home and have lower living expenses, but that is 3 hours one way.
                                            =Yes, and most of the time traffic is really worst

                                            You have opted for bed space knowing it is higher living expenses, but much closer to work with only 15 minutes of commute time.
                                            =True,

                                            So this part of things is how much does the higher cost of living affect your goals for income?

                                            =Yes, I was thinking additional about the tax

                                            Determine that and then you will be able to begin to determine how much more they would be required to offer you in order for you to take a job again with your prior employer.

                                            = I already asked them about it, They said same money, same responsibilities

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